Tuesday, July 10, 2007

Sad News


From Morag








" This is the e-mail I knew
I would have to send out at sometime
and always dreaded, always wondering
how I could word the information.
I never really came to any decision
as to what I would write.
The words seem so difficult
when you see them in print.
Rob passed away at 11.22pm
on Sunday, 8th July 2007.
He died at home, as was his wish,
with Sarah and me at his bedside.
He had had a very difficult day.
He had been struggling
with his breathing since about 7.30am,
finally drifting into unconsciousness
around 7 o'clock in the evening.

No matter how much you prepare yourself,
or however much time you are given,
the final result is just heartbreaking.
I cannot start to express
how much I will miss him
and I'm sure there are a lot of people out there
who will have very similar thoughts.
Unfortunately, Rob's other wish,
to see his new grandchild,
has not been fulfilled, but he was aware that
we will all now be able to put our energies
into supporting Sarah, Keith and Ruth
with their new baby
The next news e-mail
will be in celebration of a new life.
Information about Rob's funeral
will be in Wednesday's Scotsman
and Edinburgh Evening News (11.7.07).
Sarah, Keith and I will be happy
to see all friends and relatives who can make it.
There will be a closing collection for
the Maggie's Cancer Support Centre
and Marie Curie Cancer Care.
These organisations are invaluable
to anyone going through the journey
that Rob and I have made.
We would have been lost without them,
and similarly,
the district nurses in our local practise

Thanks for your e-mails and your support.
Think about Rob often, if you can.

love,

Morag "

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